What is love?

Everyone has one thing in common, and that is the matter of what stirs up inside of him or her. It is a strong emotion that one conveys when they are with their significant other, or with something that they like the most. This emotion is love. No one knows what it is for sure, but it happens. The question is what is love anyway? Love comes in a certain price, but that does not stop people from loving, people love from deep down within them and they learn to respect each other.

Love is a controversy that people like to discuss about the most. Not everyone can grasp the main concept of what it is. People will think that love is something that stirs up deep down inside of them, from the soul and to the heart. Love is something that sparks within the heart of someone. A sense of happiness extends from within them and they express that love for the other.

Trust is what holds the emotion together. If one does not trust the other, then where is the love to that? When there is no trust, then there would be disappointment involved. It is one concept that introduces key elements to a relationship, from communication and to care for each other. Trust is the big source of everything, because if there were no trust, there would be no communication and silence will become between the couple. The silence would lead to nothing, therefore leading it to disappointment and false (or true) accusations between the two. In a past experience, I have known how it felt to be disappointment. My trust with him had faltered when I learned that he had cheated on me, he was being untruthful and he was being dishonest. That ruined the trusted bond that I had with him, and I would never go back to that same person. Trust is just a number one thing for me, and, maybe, everyone else.
I never experienced what love was, but I had a close feeling to it. In my past relationship, I had discovered a connection with the person I was with. By trusting him, I thought that I was well in love. He seemed to be interested in me, and I continued to be interested in him. That is another aspect in love, to feel the connection with someone.

It is not love if you do not want to be by their side every day, because in a real relationship, people spend their every waking moment with them. Going back to the story, I thought everything was well, and I thought that I was falling in love with him. In truth, there was an uncertain trust he had with himself. He felt that he wanted to be with me, but then his ex-girlfriend started to talk to him again and he wanted to be with her. Another point is to have trust in you and no one should be unsure if they love someone if they talk to another person that would affect the way that they are feeling towards the person they are within that moment in time.
Love is not a thing that someone should be unsure about. When someone feels it, they should be able to look at their significant other and tell them that no one else matters to them. What I mean is that if they look at another woman or man, that woman or man should not be in their eye. Sure there would be a certain pull that will make them seem attracted to that person, but when they turn back to look at their loved one, they could be honest and tell them that person was attractive. Though it should not make them start arguing about something as such as that, it was a moment of time that someone else was attractive and nothing else will change their opinion about their significant other.

Again, no one can really define what love is to him or her, but it is certain that it involves a lot of trust. Relationships take time to evolve, and the trust evolves with it. With trust it builds communication, and with communication it builds a stronger connection to the two people in love. Therefore, love is a certain emotion that everyone gets involved with at least once in his or her lifetime. Once it develops, people can figure out if they like the feeling of love or they could fear the emotion of love. I have met people that do not like the meaning of love, and there is a good explanation for it.

Love can be disappointing. No one gets what they want all the time, and not everyone is lucky with a relationship. When there is no certain connection between couples, it could be disappointing. It is not all fun and games to most of the people in the world, and love could be tough. In countries like India, the daughters usually do not have an option to love a man before they marry, so it is highly disappointing to the young woman. Though in time they can find a love for their husband, but often, it does not happen right away unless they have a certain connection that they share.

Love is not easy, and love is hard to come by. Finding a person you connect with at a certain level can be difficult. This is why some couples do not get along at first, but as time goes on, they have a connection. Everyone seems to be in a rush to be in love, and it takes time. Considering this, have you been in love? It is a difficult answer, because there is no absolute answer. Not everyone feels love the same way.